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Your Soul Family Summer Sale

50% off until the 23rd July

Secrets of Your Soul

A story of past lives unveils wisdom beyond your wildest dreams. The sharing of this story aims to help make the path to enlightenment less mysterious. It really does happen to everyday people (Book 3 in the Your Soul Family series).

£1.99 DISCOUNTED TO £0.99    BUY NOW offer closes midnight 23rd July

Finding Your Soul Family

Move beyond a challenge – connect with your soul for calmness, harmony, wisdom to find strength, love and guidance (Book 2 in the Your Soul Family series) 

£2.99 DISCOUNTED TO £1.99     BUY NOW  offer closes midnight 23rd July

 

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Intuitive Wisdom one-to-one session – discuss your hopes, desires and challenges.

You are learning much by just living. Talking about your life gives greater clarity on your life lessons and what you have learnt so far. You may also be in the process of learning new life lessons. Identifying them will make them easier to learn and life more comfortable.

 

Learn to

  • access you own wisdom in your heart
  • discover how to find a way forward with life challenges
  • gain perspective on your life to find the right way forward.

aided by the compassion, love and wisdom Alison brings to the session.

£40 DISCOUNTED TO £20    BUY NOW  offer closes midnight 23rd July

Energy Healing – a wonderful time to relax and receive well-being and love from the Universe.

Alison will:

  • re-balance your chakras and your soul will accept the healing you need,
  • assist in the arrival of inner peace,
  • discuss what you felt and assist you to understand what you body and soul have received.

£40 DISCOUNTED TO £20    BUY NOW offer closes midnight 23rd July

Spiritual Development Coaching – the path of spiritual development can be a lonely one read more

By Alison Wem, ago

Friends: 3 characteristics of a good friend

A friendship can strike up quickly between you and another person or it may grow over time.  Both are valid approaches to establishing a friendship.  At some point you will realise they are important to you.  Your relationship may display many of these characteristics;

  • challenge you making the relationship exciting and fun.
  • stay with you through the good times and the sad times.
  • supportive of each other – your hopes, desires and fears.

Often conversation bounces backwards and forwards between you with each of you listening and giving a considered reply.  Good friends love you and can feel as comfortable as an old pair of slippers!

You feel able to ask them for their help and they are there for you if your world comes tumbling down.

Humans are tribal by nature and therefore feel happier and more fulfilled when they have good friends. Plus there is the 150-friend theory. This states that the human brain is hard wired to have up to 150 friends and this dates from early social development. At that time, we typically lived in tribes and traditionally the tribe size was 150 people. The survival reason for being in a tribe is that you are stronger together than apart. It is difficult to know whether the tribes or the brain developed first. However there does seem to be some synergy between the two.

For me, it is not about the quantity of friendships but rather the quality of your relationships read more

By Alison Wem, ago

Families: how to make them stronger so they stay together?

In the UK and I suspect many other countries too, the school half term is now over.

How did the holiday break go with you and your family?

This includes grandparents and anyone else who may have been involved with providing child care for younger children or ‘entertainment’ for older ones in half term week.

Hopefully you all had a wonderful time. But if my memory of being a working mum serves me right, this was not always the case. There is often so much expectation of the fun of being together, but without the ground work already in place, anticipation can turn to disappointment, frustration and fatigue.

So with Easter only 6 weeks away, it seems right to talk about families and how we can improve the time we spend together.

Do you regularly practice being together and listening to one another?

My observation is there are many benefits for families who regularly eat together. As they saying goes;

Families who eat together stay together.

In our busy 21st century lives, there is a trend towards families eating their meals from trays watching TV rather than sitting to a table and facing each other.  Likewise teenagers, if allowed, will take their food and eat in their bedrooms.

  • Eating a meal at a table together as a family strengthens the family bond. Over the meal conversation will flow backwards and forwards between parents, between parents and children.  By sharing their day’s news, family members are more involved with each other’s lives.  This gives opportunities to support one another and for parents to guide a child.
  • Listening to the conversation between parents is another opportunity for children to learn how to behave with another person and to love and support that person.  The simple act of eating a meal together provides many opportunities to learn for all involved.
  • Children may resist family dinners but as they become adults, they will come to value them. They may even repeat the process with their own children. Children can learn much at the family dinner table. This can include listening to and participating in parental discussions on economics, world issues, and what it means to be living a life. Children gain the opportunity to assess and form their own life values.

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    By Alison Wem, ago

    Send love to someone you cannot meet

    I am learning from giving virtual reiki sessions over WhatsApp in lockdown London, that distance is absolutely no problem for energy. My friends and customers are amazed that it feels the same as when I am in the same room as them.

    Love is intelligent energy and has no bounds.

    So with this post of the Kyoto Garden in Holland Park, London I am sending my love to my friend Hitomi in Tokyo. Normally she visits us every other year but she has not been able to come due to the virus. Hitomi, we are missing you and hope we can meet again sometime soon.

    Try watching this short video and send your love to someone you cannot meet at the moment.

    A message of love for a loved one

    By Alison Wem, ago