The approach to Christmas can be a challenging time. Women are often the main organiser of school costumes for nativities, other social events, presents, and the food preparation for the day. Of course this is on top of normal daily activities. It is not a wonder many women are tense over the pre-Christmas period. Do you recognise the scenario?
However there are things women can do to help themselves. Lets look at some tips for the woman of the house…..
Tip #1 Stay calm – remember that the people coming on Christmas Day are friends and family. The day is not a test, they love you. Everything does not have to be perfect, only you want that. Do not be afraid to delegate tasks.read more
Taking responsibility for your well-being is part of living. Explore your inner landscape to find your calmness and peace. In that place of calmness you can meet your soul. Your soul will nourish you and you can learn to receive guidance on your life from your soul.
We all have a tendency to feel sorry for ourselves. Nobody has everything. Even the rich and the successful have their challenges. If you followed them home there may be problems with infidelity, a sick child or perhaps fear of redundancy.
Matilda was from a successful family. She had become a successful teacher but the role had long hours and was burning her out and causing her problems with her boyfriend. She made the decision to change career. However to make the change she would have to take a salary cut. Fearful of telling her parents, she confided in her grandad. To her surprise he said;
We love you for who you are not what you are. All we want is for you to be happy and healthy.
After one false start, Matilda is now happily working in a new career and has a new boyfriend too!
I believe your back grows broad enough to bear the challenges you are faced with. You will not be given a challenge that you cannot cope with, even if it means making the decision and having the strength to walk away from it.
Find the strength to look your challenge in the face.
Frame it with hope rather than despair and you might be surprised with what you discover. Admittedly you might have to either;
accept the situation for what it is,
just let it go,
take action to move yourself to a different and better place.
By taking control of the situation and deciding how you will re-act to it will give you confidence in yourself.read more
We all have a tendency to feel sorry for ourselves. Nobody has everything. Even the rich and the successful have their challenges. If you followed them home there may be problems with infidelity, a sick child or perhaps fear of redundancy.
Find the strength to look your challenge in the face.