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About Alison Wem

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Alison Wem came to the Your Soul Family techniques a number of years ago in the early hours one night as, newly widowed with children and a demanding job, she confronted her anguish – and found not chaos and more pain but a place of calmness and a route to strength, love and guidance.

Alison captured the process she went through and shares them in easy-to-do steps in her first book Creating Your Soul Map – a route back to your soul. Soul Maps are a visual representation of you and your life. Choosing a soul map template to colour, you paint the geometric shapes to relax the mind to find your inner strength, wisdom, and peace. No artistic skills are required. read more

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Your Soul Family Summer Sale

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Secrets of Your Soul

A story of past lives unveils wisdom beyond your wildest dreams. The sharing of this story aims to help make the path to enlightenment less mysterious. It really does happen to everyday people (Book 3 in the Your Soul Family series).

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Finding Your Soul Family

Move beyond a challenge – connect with your soul for calmness, harmony, wisdom to find strength, love and guidance (Book 2 in the Your Soul Family series) 

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Intuitive Wisdom one-to-one session – discuss your hopes, desires and challenges.

You are learning much by just living. Talking about your life gives greater clarity on your life lessons and what you have learnt so far. You may also be in the process of learning new life lessons. Identifying them will make them easier to learn and life more comfortable.

 

Learn to

  • access you own wisdom in your heart
  • discover how to find a way forward with life challenges
  • gain perspective on your life to find the right way forward.

aided by the compassion, love and wisdom Alison brings to the session.

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Energy Healing – a wonderful time to relax and receive well-being and love from the Universe.

Alison will:

  • re-balance your chakras and your soul will accept the healing you need,
  • assist in the arrival of inner peace,
  • discuss what you felt and assist you to understand what you body and soul have received.

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Spiritual Development Coaching – the path of spiritual development can be a lonely one read more

By Alison Wem, ago

I feel so alone….

When life is really challenging, sometimes we can feel really alone. Typically, this is at times of change. Most commonly this is as a result of one of the three Ds – divorce, debt and death. Sadly, more than one of these can happen at the same time.

How do you cope when you feel very alone with a big challenge, like one of the 3 Ds?

Your greatest friend and guide at times like this is your soul. Many people don’t realise they are in contact with their soul. I spoke to mine for years not realising who he was.

Your soul contacts you through your intuition read more

By Alison Wem, ago

Happy wishing for your coming year

Now is the time between Christmas and the start of 2025 to reflect.

What did you experience in 2024 and what would you like to bring in for you and your loved ones for 2025?

Think about the things that went well for you in the last year. For me 2024 was a mixed year. I made some good progress as an author publishing my fourth book and starting my next one. I have continued to grow the number of people who seek my assistance with personal and spiritual growth.  My greatest delight has been my granddaughter who was one in November. As the saying goes

=&0=&celebrate them and give yourself a pat on the back.

2024 was not without its challenges for me. My spiritual mentor passed which was painful as I do miss her. Perhaps you had some challenges too.

What life lessons have you been learning? Perhaps your challenges were opportunities to practise your life lessons. My key life lessons have been about practising patience and compassion. I have never been a patient person as my children will testify. By nature I am a person of action but I have to learn sometimes you get a better result by letting something go and just see where it settles. Observe yourself and see if you can identify what life lessons you have been working on in 2024.

Compassion is a concern for the suffering of others. It is a key personal development for everyone to experience compassion, both giving and receiving it. Small gifts of kindness and compassion cost nothing in financial terms but make a big difference to the world we live in. Practising compassion at home, such as making a cup of tea for a loved one when they come in from work tired, develops your mindset for compassion. This mindset will then spill out into other parts of your life and will ripple and magnify. Practising compassion is a good wish to make for yourself in 2025.

Think about the life lessons you want to learn in 2025. If you have built one of my soul maps, review the insight it brought.

Wish into your year opportunities to practise your life lessons and it will be a productive and fruitful year.

Make a wish

Happy wishing and a Happy New Year

Love, Alison

 

We would love to hear from you.  If you have a question or want to book an appointment with

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By Alison Wem, ago

Families: how to make them stronger so they stay together?

In the UK and I suspect many other countries too, the school half term is now over.

How did the holiday break go with you and your family?

This includes grandparents and anyone else who may have been involved with providing child care for younger children or ‘entertainment’ for older ones in half term week.

Hopefully you all had a wonderful time. But if my memory of being a working mum serves me right, this was not always the case. There is often so much expectation of the fun of being together, but without the ground work already in place, anticipation can turn to disappointment, frustration and fatigue.

So with Easter only 6 weeks away, it seems right to talk about families and how we can improve the time we spend together.

Do you regularly practice being together and listening to one another?

My observation is there are many benefits for families who regularly eat together. As they saying goes;

Families who eat together stay together.

In our busy 21st century lives, there is a trend towards families eating their meals from trays watching TV rather than sitting to a table and facing each other.  Likewise teenagers, if allowed, will take their food and eat in their bedrooms.

  • Eating a meal at a table together as a family strengthens the family bond. Over the meal conversation will flow backwards and forwards between parents, between parents and children.  By sharing their day’s news, family members are more involved with each other’s lives.  This gives opportunities to support one another and for parents to guide a child.
  • Listening to the conversation between parents is another opportunity for children to learn how to behave with another person and to love and support that person.  The simple act of eating a meal together provides many opportunities to learn for all involved.
  • Children may resist family dinners but as they become adults, they will come to value them. They may even repeat the process with their own children. Children can learn much at the family dinner table. This can include listening to and participating in parental discussions on economics, world issues, and what it means to be living a life. Children gain the opportunity to assess and form their own life values.

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    By Alison Wem, ago

    Men: 3 tips for surviving Christmas

    The approach to Christmas can be a challenging time. Not only is it a busy time for the person preparing the Christmas Day celebrations, but tension can run in families where couples do not agree on the style of celebrations. Do you recognise the scenario?
    Lets look at some tips for the man of the house….. Tip #1  Remember your partner is doing their best to make Christmas a joyous and happy time for all. A little encouragement can go a long way. Tip #2 Rather than complain about the amount of money being spent, try to find some alternative treats or better still make or cook some. Tip #3 Try not to be grumpy if the treats you want are not the same as those your loved ones want. Flexibility at least for Christmas Day will bring family harmony. Apologies for these suggestions to the men who are encouraging, relaxed about the money being spent and flexible with doing what the rest of the family wants on Christmas Day…… 3 tips tomorrow for women on surviving Christmas.
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