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Men: 3 tips for surviving Christmas

The approach to Christmas can be a challenging time. Not only is it a busy time for the person preparing the Christmas Day celebrations, but tension can run in families where couples do not agree on the style of celebrations. Do you recognise the scenario?
Lets look at some tips for the man of the house….. Tip #1  Remember your partner is doing their best to make Christmas a joyous and happy time for all. A little encouragement can go a long way. Tip #2 Rather than complain about the amount of money being spent, try to find some alternative treats or better still make or cook some. Tip #3 Try not to be grumpy if the treats you want are not the same as those your loved ones want. Flexibility at least for Christmas Day will bring family harmony. Apologies for these suggestions to the men who are encouraging, relaxed about the money being spent and flexible with doing what the rest of the family wants on Christmas Day…… 3 tips tomorrow for women on surviving Christmas.
By Alison Wem, ago

Soul Map: 7 steps to understanding you and your life

Examples of student soul maps

Need a soul map?

For Alison Wem, that realisation came in the early hours as, newly widowed with children and a demanding job, she confronted her anguish – and found a space of calmness and route to strength, love and guidance.

Follow 7 easy-to-do steps to create your soul map, a route to your ‘inner you’– your sub-conscious mind, higher self or soul, depending on your beliefs.  Gain insight into who you are and where your life is going. Identify who is on this journey with you and how you are helping each other with learning life lessons.

You have already taken the biggest step, which is to find out about your ‘inner you’. You are now just seven simple steps from creating your own soul map, the route back to your ‘inner you’.

You have already taken the biggest step – deciding to find out about your ‘inner you’.

1.  Find a quiet space read more

By Alison Wem, ago

What is in a smile?

Are you back into the pressure of the working week? It is amazing what a smile can do for you.

When I was growing up, my Mum always used to say to me;

Smile at the world and it will smile back at you.

Having moved to London, I have found few people smile at you in a city. My nieces, who grew up in the Scottish Highlands and now work in London, confirmed that they find the same. It is very unlike home where people smile and say ‘Good morning’. One of them said they were determined to keep smiling at people to see how many she could get to respond. What an excellent idea!

A smile conveys we are peaceful and happy. So what a good way to start your day. Put something near your bed to remind you to smile as you get out of bed. Look in the mirror and give yourself a beautiful smile or turn to your partner and smile. I have found I get a kiss in return.

The source of a true smile is an awakened mind to living in the moment.

Enjoy living in the present moment. A smile will bring peace and happiness not only to you but also to those around you. It is a great way to manage the stress in your life at home and at work.

If you relate to this article and need some more help and guidance in your life – get in touch with Alison. Here are her contact details.

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Tel: +44 7966 137568  Email: [email protected]

Available face-to-face or via a video call depending on location.

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By Alison Wem, ago

Why I stopped believing I was separate from the Universe

I was reminded this week of how this view is held much more broadly that perhaps we think. I had a consultation with a hospital specialist this week. He asked me what my job was and when I explained we had an interesting conversation about our links to the universe and the ability of mediums to provide life guidance messages. When people are seriously ill, he confirmed that doctors and nurses saw and heard the unexplainable with their patients. He asked me to demonstrate my skills with messages for him. Here was a man of science but he acknowledged their relevance to him and my ability to bring them to him.

As we grow up we are taught, particularly in the west, that we are separate from each other. If you speak to the recently bereaved and ask them if they have received a message from their passed loved one, you will be surprised how many people say yes. Perhaps we are not as separate as we are led to believe.

Scarcity is another ‘fact’ we are taught as children – money does not grow on trees, eat all of the food on your plate as other people go hungry……

When I read an article by Chris Agnos on the topic it really resonated with me. Read More

Listen to the video ‘What did you forget‘ by Sustainable Human. Listen here.

Drop me a comment on how you feel. Let me know if you agree or disagree with

We are not as separate from each other or the Universe as perhaps we think.

If you relate to this article and need some more help and guidance in your life – get in touch with Alison. Here are her contact details.

Click to contact me Here

Tel: +44 7966 137568  Email: [email protected]

Available face-to-face or via video conferencing depending on location.

Upcoming events with Alison Wem – look here

By Alison Wem, ago

College of Psychic Studies – Open Evening, 2nd August

 

16 Queensberry Pl, South Kensington, London SW7 2EB

This is a great event and to be recommended.  Doors open at 4.30 pm. It’s a chance to try out a reading or a healing and to go to some wonderful lectures and demos given by college teachers.  Food and drink is provided with lots of opportunity to meet a teacher to see if you would like to study with them. Many students attend so you will have a chance to chat to some like-minded people. Crystals and books available for sale.

Alternatively just meet up with your friends and enjoy the activities and a lovely social evening.  I am planning on going, so if you decide to go do let me know and we can meet-up, [email protected] I will also be giving sittings at 5.45 and 6.15 pm if you want to ask for me.

Tickets sell fast so do book ahead.

College of Psychic Studies – 2nd August Open Evening read more

By Alison Wem, ago

Happiness: can you sustain the feeling of joy

We all want to be happy. As a parent, the greatest gift is for your child to be happy. But how do you go about being happy?

Happiness arrives in the moment. It is that feeling of joy that bubbles up from within you.

How do you sustain that joy beyond the moment?

Alison Wem gives 3 approaches to sustaining joy. 

Watch here

If you relate to this article and need some more help and guidance in your life Get in touch with Alison. Here are her contact details.

Click to contact me Here

Tel: +44 7966 137568  Email: [email protected]

Available face-to-face or via video conferencing depending on location.

By Alison Wem, ago

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