Control is probably the last thing many of us would want to let go of. By having control and being in charge of your life or a situation brings a sense of more certainty. But does it?
Are you allowing the right people and things into your life?
I am dyslexic and forget things very easily. Being highly planned and structured helps me get through the day. I don’t have to remember where the car keys are if I always put them in the same place. When I married my husband and he came to live with us, my life seemed totally chaotic. He is the opposite to me and just dumps the car keys anywhere!
However, sometimes I forget to let go of my plan and control to allow the right things for me to arrive.
An example of this was when I started my dream new job. It was a job I had always wanted and had been working to gain the skills for it for many years. However, when I started the job, I found the culture of the company was not for me. Their values just didn’t match mine. I really struggled with the idea of letting go. I kept trying harder to make things work. My guides and intuition kept saying to me, let it go. In the end the Universe took control. A senior person was very unkind to me. It was only then I came to my senses and re-evaluated the job.
I resigned and left the job without another one to go to.
Afterwards I felt such a burst of energy. My horizons expanded enormously and new opportunities arrived. My life took a course correction and I was back on the path my higher-self wanted me to be on. I was back in the flow of life. Synchronicities kept happening and life moved on in a much happier and fulfilling manner.
At the time I felt the senior person had been very unkind. Now I thank her for causing me to find my correct path again. It was a hard experience. It would have been better if I had found the courage to make the change myself. But the important thing is, I have now done it. So, I am saying to myself;
Keep up the good work.
For years I was a closet psychic medium. I trained hard for many years. But outside of the home, I never told anyone what I was or the strong spiritual beliefs I held. This was made harder as my partner had said to me – 500 years ago they used to burn people like you! In the end, I decided it was crazy leading a dual life. It made me feel less than authentic. Initially I only told family but when I was accepted there, I went on to tell friends. Work was more challenging as there is always the fear of how going public might impact my career. I chose to describe the way I lived more in terms of my life values and believing in compassion and love for one another. I finally got over that hurdle without being fired. Eventually I became a professional psychic medium. The whole world now knows what I am.
Kindness brings harmony and love to human relationships and living. When kindness is abundant in a relationship, that relationship is often joyful. Living a life surrounded by kindness is a good life.