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Why Learning to Receive is Essential for Spiritual Growth

Many women are natural givers. You care, you tend, you nurture – offering love, time, and energy to others without hesitation. But when it comes to receiving? That’s often where you falter.

Receiving is not weakness — it’s balance

We’ve been conditioned to see independence as strength and needing support as vulnerability. But true strength lies in balance. When you allow yourself to receive a compliment, an offer of help, or a listening ear, you create an energetic flow. Giving and receiving are two halves of the same whole. When one is blocked, your energy becomes depleted, and you run on empty. read more

By Alison Wem, ago

Empowerment: can spirituality help you?

What do we mean by spirituality? For me, it is about knowing there are two parts to me. Me, the personality who interacts with the world on a day-to-day basis. Me, the soul that is the eternal part of me that has lived many lives and gained some wisdom along the way.

As you explore your own spirituality you increasingly learn to go within where you discover you are never truly alone. It is within you meet your soul and start to get to know them. Perhaps unexpectedly, it is within you that you find strength, love, and support. read more

By Alison Wem, ago

Relaxation: the importance of taking a break

You may be experiencing the relentless pace of business or the rigours of running a family life or perhaps both!

Stress resides not in the mind but in the nervous system. Our ‘fight or flight’ response raises our cortisol level causing the sympathetic nervous system to activate. Our bodies are designed for a raised cortisol level but only in short bursts to aid our survival. However in our modern ‘always on the go’ life style, many people live with chronic raised cortisol levels leading to slow digestion, sleep disruption and other side effects. read more

By Alison Wem, ago

Are you enjoying your life?

I am a firm believer that;

Life is for living and enjoying

Yet it is not always easy to do this. Life can feel full of challenges.

No-one has everything.

Some people may appear to be wealthy and happy but if you follow them home, there may be challenges of fidelity, not being able to conceive a child, health problems and fear of loosing their wealth, position or power. In my experience everyone has at least one challenge in their life as we try to learn our life lessons.

How you respond to your challenges determines who you are and how you live your life. read more

By Alison Wem, ago