how do I find happiness

Finding Joy in Simple Moments: Lessons from a Field of Sunflowers

There are moments when life gently reminds us that joy doesn’t need to be complex or earned – it simply arrives, fully formed, in the most unexpected ways. Driving through the French countryside recently, I turned a corner and was met with a breathtaking sight: a sea of sunflowers stretching to the horizon, golden heads turned to the sun like little beacons of light.

The heart-opening power of beauty

I pulled over and stepped out of the car, caught off guard by the wave of happiness that swept over me. There was nothing extraordinary about the day – no grand adventure, no dramatic breakthrough. Just me, the open road, and this luminous field of yellow. Yet in that simple scene, I felt a deep sense of freedom, a lightness that made me smile from the inside out. read more

By Alison Wem, ago

How Relationships Shape Your Health: A Holistic Approach to Well-Being

In today’s fast-paced world, where technology and individualism often dominate, the importance of relationships in our lives can sometimes be overlooked. Yet, from a holistic perspective, relationships are not just a social necessity, they are a vital part of your overall health and well-being.

The connections you forge with others can have profound effects on your physical, emotional, and mental health, making it essential to understand and nurture them.

Are you giving enough attention to your relationships? read more

By Alison Wem, ago

Happiness: 5 thoughts for the coming month

Happiness is on the inside

Just looking at this picture makes me feel good.  You can feel the joy of this young man having fun in the shower.

Some tips on finding your personal happiness;
  1. One small positive thought when you wake-up can change how you feel for your entire day. What a great way to start your day
  2. Tell yourself; Today I refuse to stress myself out over things I cannot control or change. Let them go and enjoy the things in your life you can control. Make sure they are really what you want in your life.
  3. The best things in life are free: hugs, smiles, friends, kisses, family, sleep, love, laughter and good memories. Put plenty of them in your day
  4. Happiness can be as simple as; meeting an old friend after a long time and feeling that nothing has changed.
  5. I am stronger having learnt from my mistakes.  Happier because I have known sadness and learnt how to improve how I feel on the inside.

It is within your control to choose happiness.

Life without laughter is not living. Smile at the world and it will smile back at you. When you walk down the street, smile at the people walking towards you. Even in a city like London where I live which can be an anonymous place, total strangers will smile at me and even ask how I am when I practice smiling. It makes me feel good inside. read more

By Alison Wem, ago