Welcome to Your Soul Family

Calmness - Harmony - Wisdom

Alison Wem

Receive intuitive life guidance for where you are in your life. Learn to reduce your stress and achieve calmness for clarity of thought and wellbeing.

About Your Soul Family

Easy to follow steps and excercises to gain insight into yourself to enable you to construct reflective soul art, your soul map, a picture of you and your life.

Your Soul Family Workshops

Gain insight into your life choices to enhance the next chapter of your life. You will receive guidance on increasing your awareness of yourself and your needs.

Your Soul Family Services

Move beyond a challenge to live a happy, contented and fun-filled life

Spiritual Development Guidance

The path of spiritual development can be a lonely one

But it need not be so….

Are unusual things happening in your inner landscape? Or perhaps your perceptions of the world have shifted and you are not sure what it means or if it’s even real.

Talk with Alison to help you to understand your life and spiritual gifts. She will;

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  • Energy Healing session

    A wonderful time to relax and receive well-being and love from the Universe.

    Alison will:

    • re-balance your chakras and your soul will accept the healing you need,
    • assist in the arrival of calmness with inner peace,
    • discuss what you felt and assist you to understand what you body and soul have received.

    60 minute session available over zoom. It is a simple …

    Intuitive Wisdom one-to-one session

    Meet with Alison Wem and discuss your hopes, desires and challenges.

    You are learning much by just living. Talking about your life gives greater clarity on your life lessons and what you have learnt so far. You may also be in the process of learning new life lessons. Identifying them will make them easier to learn and life more comfortable.

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    Secrets of Your Soul

    A story of past lives unveils wisdom beyond your wildest dreams

    What wisdom is your soul holding for you?

    A true story of a heartfelt 5,000-year-old struggle for Andrea’s soul to evolve. Experiencing love and loss, tragedy, betrayal and violence but also friendship and kindness – all have made Andrea who she is today.

     

    Your Soul Family Publications

    Alison moved forward from widowhood to find an inner strength and wisdom she did not know she possessed. She did this through going within for love and guidance, the subject of her soul book series Your Soul Family. Each book guides you in exploring an aspect of you and your life.

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    Your Soul Family Blog

    Betrayal: can you recover from it or will you always carry the hurt?

    Betrayal can be a hard life challenge to handle and to recover from. It can go straight to your heart and make you feel unheard and/or abandoned. It can have such an impact on you, you may feel like a vulnerable small child.

    A betrayal can be from a long time ago but you might still be carrying the hurt. If the hurt is deep enough, it can appear as a physical pain or illness. Often doctors can find no cause for the pain. Yet you are still feeling it.

    It is never too late to take action. You can heal and reclaim a part of your lovely self. It is yours to own and enjoy.

    How do you handle other people’s betrayal of you?

    If you ask for help, I have found you are never really alone. This is the guidance I was asked to use for myself and to share with others. For like you, I have experienced betrayal which has left me with a pain in my side no doctor seems able to explain. Try this…

    Go into a meditative state and try these three steps:

    1. Mitigate the impact of the betrayal for every aspect of yourself – mind, body, emotions, soul at both the energy and physical level.
      • Do things that please you, rest to help recouperation. Talk to people you trust about the betrayal to help you get the hurt out of you.
    1. Stabilise
      • Give yourself lots of love, use colours that help you, walk in nature, cook healthy food you love.
    1. Repair – step back and don’t respond until you feel stable. You can’t control another’s actions but you are responsible for your response. Be kind but firm on what you feel is right. If the betrayal is from a long time ago and you are unable to speak to the individual, visualise the person and speak your response to them.

    Colours I have found helpful in this situation are lovely pinks to aid self-love. There are lots of gorgeous hues of pink. Your soul will help you to chose the right one for you. Pink helps you with self-love and self-nurture. It brings out the feminine side of you and helps you to care for that vulnerable inner-child.

    You may find yourself attracted to turquoise. Perhaps try wearing turquoise. If you don’t have any clothes of that colour perhaps you can find a scarf. It is good for emotional health and expressing yourself. Turquoise is a mix of the green from your heart chakra and blue from your throat. It assists you with speaking your truth from your heart. People will intuitively respond to the authenticity of what you say.

    No betrayal makes you someone other than you are. Often the perpetrator is acting from jealous of the lovely and gifted person you are. Try not to allow them to hold you back from being your authentic self.

    Be still and know that I am me.

    Dying: the farewell

    Since the day we were born, all of us are destined to die. As you draw into old age, you may wish to review your life and all of its ups and downs. Or you may decide to do this at an earlier time in your life. Here is some guidance you may like to consider.

    • Don’t have regrets for the things that have not gone well. We all have them. Decide what you would do differently if you were faced with the same choices again. This is how you learn and grow. A learning is never a waste for your soul even if you learn it with your last breath.
    • Be kind to yourself. We often accept the views of that critical voice inside, your ego. Your soul is much kinder and more loving. It is surprisingly objective and comes with wisdom when reviewing the life challenges you have had to deal with. Listen to the loving, kind voice rather than the critical one.
    • Be grateful for the opportunities to learn you have been given in this lifetime. You may or may not have got things right or the outcome you desired. But perhaps you have learnt hard lessons, such as how to handle disappointment in a gracious way. Or learnt to remain positive and hopeful as something better will arrive. Even if it doesn’t feel like it at the time of disappointment.

    Perhaps the hardest farewell is when someone knows they are terminally ill.

    When I am ill, I always say to myself – never mind, you will feel a little better tomorrow. How hard it must be to know it will not be the case for you and yet still enjoy life. Some people do manage this hardest of tasks. Perhaps they have learnt or found the wisdom, it is not about the quantity of life but rather the quality of it.

    Did I do my best with my life?

    When my dad was terminally ill, he took the time and energy left to him to express his love for us by making his dying the easiest he could for us. Just before he passed, he told me where to find a file he had prepared for me. Later I found out he had organised his own funeral right down to the church, coffin and guest list. He also gave me guidance on helping my mum to run the home and her finances. He left nothing of daily life to guess work. I feel it helped him to cope with the situation and left him space to enjoy the remaining life left to him with his wife and family. When we spoke of his upcoming passing, he said he was grateful for his life with my mum and the joy his children had given him. He just wished he could enjoy it a little longer but accepted it was not to be so.

    Gratitude for the life you have enjoyed, including the good and not so good elements, seems to go a long way in making the effort of being born and living a life more worthwhile.

    I am learning;

    Endings are a prelude to new beginnings.

    When my husband died young, I was jolted into a new beginning. I didn’t find it easy but I learnt so much about myself, how other people behave and the importance of caring for one another. It has made me less judgmental and a more compassionate and loving person. My husband was a generous man to enable me to gain the richness of this learning.

    Thank you.

    Pride: is it good or bad?

    Pride is the feeling you get of pleasure or satisfaction when you or someone you love has achieved something. It is perhaps that sense of pride when your child has had the courage to stand-up in front of the school and read a poem. You know how challenging that is to your child but they succeeded in doing it. I can see you clapping your hands with a big smile on your face.

    With a positive connotation, pride is a sense of contentment or happiness towards your own life choices and actions or those of someone you are close to you.

    Pride can actually help to move you forwards towards your goals and towards better behaviour. For example, if you take pride in yourself, you might not allow someone to speak unkindly to you.

    Pride can become more negative if someone is overly proud. An example is of being too proud of your looks. You might do anything to look good and not see that what is inside you shines out more than your looks.

    Is pride a good thing?

    It is good when it helps you to achieve something which makes you a better person. Your actions can inspire others to try too. But as in all things, it is about judgement on how far to take it. If you start to do things just to gain praise from others, making yourself feel good at someone else’s expense, pride turns negative.

    Contrary to popular belief, there is enough abundance for it to go round all of us. Working together with others to achieve the best for all of you, is a good thing to be proud of. When I speak of abundance many people think of cash. In this context I regard abundance as all of the people and things you need to be happy. It is not confined to cash and could be as simple as someone taking the time to have a coffee with you and to smile and chat.

    I would be very proud of someone who gave their time for another person to feel happiness. Time seems to be in such short supply in this busy world.

    Perhaps pride comes down to;

    I love myself and I see love in others.

    Get in touch!

    Email:alison.wem@yoursoulfamily.com
    Telephone:+44 (0)7966137568
    London Workshop Locations:
    London Spiritual Mission, 13 Pembridge Place, Notting Hill, London, W2 4XB
    College of Psychic Studies, 16 Queensberry Place, London, SW7 2EB

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